Loving Wastefully

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Friday, November 27, 2009

Stories for the Season Begin Sunday!

Come join us this Sunday, Nov. 29, as we "Lift the Veil" and look at the ways God is already active in the world even as we await a more full revelation at Christmas. We are excited to pulling back the shroud this year through the use of children's literature. These are timeless stories that tap into the eternal hopes and truths of Christmas. You'll want to enter into a new story with us each week in a creative re-telling. We will build up to Christmas throughout the four weeks of Advent with the stories and wonderful music.

The stories are:
Advent 1 (Nov. 29): The Polar Express, Chris Van Allsburg (Houghton Mifflin, 1985)
Scripture: "the skin of his face was shining, and they were afraid to come near him" (Exodus 34:29-35)

Advent 2 (Dec. 6): Christmas Tapestry, Patricia Polacco (Babushka, Inc.; 2002)
Scripture: “Does not wisdom call, and does not understanding raise her voice?” (Proverbs 8)

Advent 3 (Dec. 13): December, Eve Bunting, David Diaz (Harcourt, 1997)
Scripture: “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.” (Hebrew 13:2)

Advent 4 (Dec. 20): The Christmas Candle, Richard Paul Evans, Jacob Collins (Simon & Schuster, 1998)
Scripture: “Just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.” (Matthew 25)

We have adapted this series from the Rev. Katherine Hawker at www.liturgyoutside.net/veil.pdf

Most Important Muslim Festival Today

The word Eid is an Arabic word meaning a festivity, a celebration, a recurring happiness, a feast. In Islam, there are two major Eids: Eid al-Fitr ("The Festival of Fast-Breaking”) at the end of Ramadan and Eid al-Adha ("The Festival of Sacrifice" or “Greater Eid”) at the end of the Hajj – the religious pilgrimage to Mekkah (Mecca).

Edi al-Adha (pronounced EED al-adHHHA) is the most important festival of the Muslim year. The holiday is celebrated worldwide as Muslims (including the Druze) remember and commemorate the trials and triumphs of Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham).

Traditionally, the holiday celebrates Ibrahim’s willingness to sacrifice his son Ishmael when he was commanded to show his commitment to Allah (God) and Allah’s revealing to Ibrahim that, by his willingness, he had already fulfilled his “sacrifice”. (NOTE: Muslims believe the son to be Ishmael rather than Isaac as told in Christian and Jewish traditions.) At Allah’s direction, a lamb was sacrificed in place of Ishmael.

In 2009 Eid al-Adha will begin on Friday, the 27th of November and in most countries the festival will last for three or four days. Muslim holidays begin at sunset on the previous day, so this year observing Muslims will celebrate Eid al-Adha beginning at sunset on Thursday, November 26th.

Eid al-Adha is a happy time. On the first morning of Eid al-Adha, Muslims around the world dress in their finest clothing to perform Eid prayer in a large congregation in an open area or mosque. Prayers are followed by visits to family and friends, the exchange of gifts, and by festive meals. Sweets, including dried fruits and sweetmeats, are plentiful.

In many countries, those Muslims who can afford to do so may sacrifice a domestic animal (such as a sheep, camel or goat) in an act known as qurbani. One-third of the animal’s meat is then consumed by immediate family, while the remaining two-thirds is given away to friends and to the poor Islamic residents of the community, respectively. The animal is offered as a symbol of Abraham's sacrifice and the distribution of the meat to others is an expression of Zakat (giving to the poor and needy), one of the five pillars of Islam.

Traditional Greeting: Eid mubarak (EED moo-BAR-ak) is a greeting specifically for use on the festivals of Eid al-Adha and Eid ul-Fitr. In English the greeting can be paraphrased as meaning "may you enjoy a blessed festival".

Adherents.com places the number of Muslims globally at 1.5 billion; however, they also note that contemporary figures place the number in a wide range between 1 billion and 1.8 billion – with numbers at the lower end of the range being somewhat dated.

After sunset on Thursday, the 26th of November, we ask that you join with us as we pause to send feelings of love and good will to our Muslim brothers and sisters during the joyous festival of Eid al-Adha.

Shalom Salaam Peace

Kay & Dave Corby, Founders
www.commontables.org

Quote Time

What is to give light
must endure
burning.

~ Viktor Frankl

Remembering Two-Spirits this Thanksgiving

Remembering Two-Spirits this Thanksgiving

November 2009
Author:
Rev. Irene Monroe

As I prepare for the Thanksgiving holiday, I am reminded of the autumnal harvest time's spiritual significance. As a time of connectedness, I pause to acknowledge what I have to be thankful for. But I also reflect on the holiday as a time of remembrance - historical and familial.

Historically, I am reminded that for many Native Americans, Thanksgiving is not a cause of celebration, but rather a National Day of Mourning, remembering the real significance of the first Thanksgiving in 1621 as a symbol of persecution and genocide of Native Americans and the long history of bloodshed with European settlers....

Homophobia is not indigenous to Native American culture. Rather, it is one of the many devastating effects of colonization and Christian missionaries that today Two-Spirits may be respected within one tribe yet ostracized in another.

"Homophobia was taught to us as a component of Western education and religion," Navajo anthropologist Wesley Thomas has written. "We were presented with an entirely new set of taboos, which did not correspond to our own models and which focused on sexual behavior rather than the intricate roles Two-Spirit people played. As a result of this misrepresentation, our nations no longer accepted us as they once had."

Traditionally, Two-Spirits symbolized Native Americans' acceptance and celebration of diverse gender expressions and sexual identities. They were revered as inherently sacred because they possessed and manifested both feminine and masculine spiritual qualities that were believed to bestow upon them a "universal knowledge" and special spiritual connectedness with the "Great Spirit." Although the term was coined in the early 1990s, historically Two-Spirits depicted transgender Native Americans. Today, the term has come to also include lesbian, gay, bisexual, and intersex Native Americans.

The Pilgrims, who sought refuge here in America from religious persecution in their homeland, were right in their dogged pursuit of religious liberty. But their actual practice of religious liberty came at the expense of the civil and sexual rights of Native Americans.

Read the rest at www.clgs.org/blog/commentary/remembering-two-spirits-thanksgiving

Churches Open Doors to Pets to Attract New Worshipers

Maybe this is something we should consider -- perhaps an occasional or monthly service? Post your comments here, write me at pastor@douglasucc.org, or help us organize one!

The Associated Press
Posted Nov 13, 2009 @ 05:12 PM

Los Angeles —

When the Rev. Tom Eggebeen took over as interim pastor at Covenant Presbyterian Church three years ago, he looked around and knew it needed a jump start.


Most of his worshippers, though devoted, were in their 60s, attendance had bottomed out and the once-vibrant church was fading as a community touchstone in its bustling neighborhood.


So Eggebeen came up with a hair-raising idea: He would turn God’s house into a doghouse by offering a 30-minute service complete with individual doggie beds, canine prayers and an offering of dog treats. He hopes it will reinvigorate the church’s connection with the community, provide solace to elderly members and, possibly, attract new worshippers who are as crazy about God as they are about their four-legged friends.


Before the first Canines at Covenant service last Sunday, Eggebeen said many Christians love their pets as much as human family members and grieve just as deeply when they suffer — but churches have been slow to recognize that love as the work of God.


“The Bible says of God only two things in terms of an ‘is’: That God is light and God is love. And wherever there’s love, there’s God in some fashion,” said Eggebeen, himself a dog lover. “And when we love a dog and a dog loves us, that’s a part of God and God is a part of that. So we honor that.”

Read the rest at www.hollandsentinel.com/life/x687823097/Churches-open-their-doors-to-pets-to-attract-new-worshippers

Quote Time

The hardest thing
is to take less
when you can get more.

~ Kin Hubbard

If
the only prayer you said
in your whole life was,
"thank you,"
that would suffice.

~ Meister Eckhart

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Christ in Ocean Garbage: "My Kin-dom Is Not of This World"

During this week's worship on Reign of Christ Sunday, we looked at how Christ (the image of God within and among us -- as individuals and communities; the best within us) reigns in all of life, including creation. In particular, we heard about one man's work and vision (with a talented team of folks) to both recycle plastic and to decrease plastic use.

David de Rothschild is building "Plastiki," a catamaran out of recycled plastic (most boats today are fiberglass, a very poor material for the environment) to sail 11,000 miles from San Francisco to Sydney. Read more about it at www.theplastiki.com and http://www.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2009-11-15-plastiki16_CV_N.htm

On the way, he will encounter the Great Pacific Garbage Patch - a swirling mass of trash twice the size of Texas, made up mostly of plastic, that circulates in the north Pacific Ocean. It is dangerous and nasty and awful. See more about it and how it's killing albatross chicks in the area as parents think the plastics are food at www.lifewithoutplastic.com/

We were challenged to reduce our purchase and use of plastics this season and consider creative ways to reuse and recycle those we do have. One creative piece I saw showed a picture of a two-liter soda bottle attached to the end of a garden hose by duct tape. Holes poked in the bottle converted it into a fine water sprinkler! You can even decorate the bottle!

Most plastic, which is made primarily of crude oil and natural gas, is not truly recycled. It is downstreamed. That is, unlike glass and aluminum, which can be remade into other glass and aluminum containers, the majority of plastic cannot be remade into plastic containers but becomes carpet or fleece fabric or composite wood materials. These products, once they are done being used or are worn out, then head for the landfill.

Give the earth a gift this Christmas and take it easy on the plastics!

Thanksgiving Sugar Collection Exceeds Goal!

Once again, you've proved what an amazing and generous congregation we are by exceeding our goal of 600 pounds of sugar for Thanksgiving Baskets through Christian Neighbors this year. We turned in the final of 640 pounds on Tuesday. The last-minute rush donations on Sunday and Monday brought us to the edge at 595 pounds and the final bags on Tuesday morning pushed us over. Thank you!!!

In this tough economy, you have come through again for our neighbors in need this season. You have given witness to God's love in one of the poorest counties in Michigan. Thanks to you and the other churches of the area, hundreds of families will be able to enjoy a bounteous table this Thanksgiving. Thank you to the many folks who also helped sort and pack fresh fruit and veggies on Monday.

Stories of the Season Highlight Advent Worship

You won't want to miss our Advent worship services this year, Nov. 29-Dec. 20. The first three weeks will include three great stories from children's literature: The Polar Express, Christmas Tapestry, and December. Dec. 20 will feature a wonderful Christmas pageant of theater, song, and story titled "Matt & Lucy's Version Christmas."

In addition, the music and candles and decorations will bring you back home and to a sense of wonder as we "lift the veil" to see what might be waiting on the other side. Come and join us! Let us be your holiday home this year!

Great Concerts December 5 &13!

The West Michigan Gay Men's Chorus and the Grand Rapids Women's Chorus will hold their winter concerts in December. You won't want to miss either of these fabulous groups!

At 7:30 p.m., Saturday, Dec. 5, the Women's Chorus will delight with songs of power and joy from around the world at Trinity United Methodist Church in Grand Rapids (1100 Lake Dr., SE). Our own Liz DeBraber sings with this group. See more about the group and this free concert at www.grwc.org.

At 3 p.m., Sunday, Dec. 13, the Men's Chorus will sing at the East Grand Rapids Performing Arts Center. Tickets can be purchased at the door or from Joel Dykema (616.364.3220), who says this will be "a really fun concert." Ken Hemminger from Douglas UCC also sings with the chorus. Learn more at www.wmgmc.org.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

God Does Not Demand Blood

Since it's proclamation by Pope Pius XI in 1925, liturgical churches like us have celebrated the final Sunday in the church year (this Sunday, Nov. 22) as Christ the King Sunday. Progressive churches like ours call it Reign of Christ Sunday.

As much as any time in the church year besides Holy Week, this Sunday provokes many of us with images of blood (as well as paternalism and triumphalism -- but those we'll reserve for another time). The Gospel text is Pilate's query of Jesus about his kingship before handing him over to be killed and the other text from the Christian testament is Revelation 1:4-8, which reads in part, "To him who loves us and freed us from our sins by his blood" (Rev. 1:5; find the complete texts for this week at http://www.ucc.org/worship/samuel/november-22-2009.html).

How exactly does this work? What does the writer of Revelation mean? Are we really "washed in the blood of Jesus" as many have sung throughout the years?

Or in our context, people will ask me why we don't sing certain hymns and songs. My answer: I refuse to engage in blood imagery and, especially, in any blood imagery that conjures up Jesus of Nazareth as some necessary sacrifice for humanity to appease the anger, wrath, or justice of God.

But, they reply, isn't being "washed in the blood" or at least "freed...from our sins by his blood" what we're all about?

Thus we enter a thorny field of questions, interpretations, theology, theories, church history, secular history, contemporary sensibilities, and more.

One simple reason I avoid such imagery is that people who have no history in the church can find it quite gory. As we seek to welcome all people, this can be off-putting. So I do as one of my good clergy colleague friends suggests and substitute "love" for "blood," which works in almost all cases (i.e., "This cup is the new covenant poured out in my love..." in the eucharistic liturgy).

Of course, that doesn't get to the core of the issue. The core is this: violence never wins.

Jesus died on a cross because violence is the way of society. As Daniel M. Bell, Jr., puts it in the article "God Does Not Demand Blood," excerpted from a book titled God Does Not and reprinted in the Christian Century magazine on Feb. 10, 2009 (read the whole article at (http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1058/is_3_126/ai_n31557608/):

Culturally, the message that violence saves is evident in movie theaters and on the television screen. The plot of countless shows and movies can be summed up as "People who use bad violence are pursued by people who use good violence, and in the end good violence saves the day."

God does not work that way. God does not require violence or bloodshed. Violence and bloodshed make up a large portion of the DNA of domination systems and empires, which John Dominic Crossan and Marcus Borg call "the normalcy of civilization." If God worked through violence and bloodshed, God would have come to fulfill the messianic desires (of at least some) for a Commando Christ, leading armies to victory.

Instead, God came in human form in the person of Jesus (within the traditional Christian story) to enact reconciliation and communion between the human and the Divine. To further quote Bell: Jesus is

the embodiment of God's faithfulness to the divine desire for communion and reconciliation. Jesus was obedient to this divine mission even when he faced human resistance and rejection in the form of the cross. This love of God expressed in Jesus saves us. It is the love that would rather die on the cross than give up on us. We reject God, so God sends Jesus with the offer of life again and we reject it again; Jesus could have abandoned us, or called down fire from heaven to destroy us. But he did not. He remained faithful to his mission, reaching out to us until the end: "Father, forgive them ..."

It was only in the 11th century, a thousand years after Jesus, that St. Anselm of Canterbury developed the substitutionary theory of atonement (why God became human) that predominates the American Christian landscape. Bell summarizes it well:

In the face of human sin, which is an offense against God's honor, God, as One who must uphold justice, cannot simply forgive sin but must enforce a strict rendering of what is due. Because sinful humanity cannot fulfill its debt, the God-man Christ steps forward and fulfills justice through his substitutionary death on the cross. Redemption is a result of the payment of a debt incurred through sin by means of a death that satisfies divine justice.

This is a reading of Scripture that factors in heavily both the medieval system of justice in Anselm's time and the Hebrew system of sacrifice. And one that thoroughly separates the death of Jesus from the life and teachings of Jesus. This rending of his life is violence itself.

As a people who seek to hold together and live by the life, teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus the Christ, we see all those aspects as speaking to how and why God became (and continually becomes again) human. Even if suffering and death were the predictable result, they were not the reason.

The reason was to show another way, a way of redemptive nonviolence, a way that was different from the violence and bloodshed of the Empire (then or now). Thus Jesus says to Pilate, looking at Pilate's world of Roman rule and domination, "My kingdom/reign is not of this world." In essence, my kingdom/reign is not of violence and extortion and oppression. My kingdom/reign is of peace and communal sharing and the dignity of every person.

I end with a portion of Bell's conclusion:

The point is that in Christ we are not just pardoned but are also healed of our sin and made a different kind of people, a new creation, who live by a different logic. We love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. We forgive, as we have been forgiven. We renounce violence as a means of defending or securing or saving ourselves or those we love. To the extent that our savior is Christ, our defense, security and salvation depend on Christ and the love that overcomes enemies. We live out the ministry of reconciliation (2 Cor. 5:17-20).

This way of life may entail enduring suffering--not because suffering is in some way good or redemptive, not because this is what God wants or because it is punishment for our sin. Rather, it is because suffering is the cost that humans in their sinful rebellion impose on other humans. Moreover, being prepared to suffer does not mean that we must seek out suffering or passively endure it.

In places where we can talk about what the words mean and how we hear them, I will still use the word "blood" in relation to our faith. For in this understanding, Jesus came to reconcile us with one another and with the Divine and with the Universe. In that sense, we are all of one blood; this same lifeblood courses through all creation. When this recognition takes its place at the center of our being, violence can never be tolerated -- even if attributed to God (or especially if attributed to God!). Nonviolence becomes the way and violent acts only further convict those who commit them.

What does this mean for us practically? How does it play out in our lives? What does the "reign of Christ" have to say to us and our world today?

Come Sunday and find out!

Another Visitor Says...

I visited your church a couple of weeks ago, while you were ministering at a couple’s retreat. I’m sorry I missed your message that day, but the service was lovely. The Love of Christ is certainly in the heart of your congregation. I was actually greeted just as I was stepping out of my car by a man who was walking to church that morning. Then inside, Love and Joy prevailed. The people did a wonderful job handling the service. You can be confident the flock is in good hands even when you are away.

Obama Advisor Splits with President on Gay Marriage

ABC News’ Teddy Davis reports:

Melody Barnes, the head of President Obama’s Domestic Policy Council, told students at Boston College Law School on Nov. 9 that she disagrees with her boss on the issue of same-sex marriage.

“I really appreciate your frustration and your disappointment with the President’s position on this issue,” said Barnes when asked by a student if she supported equal civil marriage rights for gays and lesbians. “[W]ith regard to my own views, those are my own views, and I come to my experience based on what I’ve learned, based on the relationships I’ve had with friends, and they’re relationships that I respect, and the children that they are raising, and that is something that I support.”

Read the rest at: http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2009/11/obama-adviser-splits-with-president-on-gay-marriage.html

UCC Pastor at Ft. Hood Funeral: Not Everything Happens for a Reason

KIEL — Not everything happens for a reason, the Rev. David Mercer of St. Peter’s United Church of Christ in Kiel told the 1,000 or so people gathered at the Kiel High School gymnasium Saturday afternoon for the funeral service for Staff Sgt. Amy Krueger.

“Amy’s death did not happen for a reason,” Mercer said. “Amy’s life did happen for a reason.”

Mercer addressed a question people may be asking following the Nov. 5 shooting at Fort Hood, Texas, which claimed the life of Krueger, a 1998 Kiel High School graduate, and 12 others.

People want to know why God took Amy, he said, but the answer is God didn’t take her life.

The world isn’t the stage of a puppet show with God pulling the strings, controlling people’s actions, according to Mercer. Instead, because God wants people to come to Him of their own choosing, He gave humans free will.

Sometimes they exercise that free will by making decisions for good and sometimes, as in the case of the Fort Hood murders, for evil, according to Mercer. Mercer was one of several speakers at the funeral, which lasted nearly two hours.

Read the full article at: http://www.htrnews.com/article/20091114/MAN0101/91114025/1984/MANlife/Update--Pastor-at-Krueger-s-funeral--Not-everything-happens-for-a-reason

Quote Time

"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."
~ Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Iraqi Gays Suffer More Since 2003

November 16, 2009

Read the whole piece at:

An organization dedicated to securing asylum for LGBT refugees from Iraq estimates that over 720 LGBT men and women have been murdered by extremist militias in the last six years.
London-based Iraqi LGBT reports the Iraqi government has largely been absent in pursuing the roaming "death squads" in Iraq who seek out LGBT victims, likely due to the influence of extremist Shia religious parties that are calling for a moral cleansing of Iraq.
The organization says the rise of fundamentalist groups in Iraq since the 2003 U.S. invasion has proven deadly to LGBT Iraqis, who are now being forced to either hide or face the consequences. On its website, Iraqi LGBT says, "there is little hope for Iraqis suffering under the new socio-political climate. Once the most liberal and secular of the Arab nations, nowadays religious extremism has taken hold of the country to the detriment of its people."
But the big question continues to be, why hasn't the U.S. government done anything to help? It is hearbreaking that Iraqi LGBT has to beg for donations on its website, instead of getting any form of help whatsoever from us to help stop the gay genocide in Iraq.
President Obama has remained completely silent on the issue, even after receiving a letter from Rep. Jared Polis urging his administration to take action, and a 67-page report by Human Rights Watch in August outlining in explicit detail the torture and murder of LGBT Iraqis, which was featured prominently in nearly every U.S. media outlet, including the New York Times and CNN. Since the HRW report was released, there hasn't been a single change in military strategy to protect LGBT Iraqis from the roaming death squads or the Iraqi police.
Better question - why haven't American LGBT people and their supporters expressed more outrage about the horrendous situation facing LGBT Iraqis? Are we so caught up in our own myopic obsession with equal rights here that we forget about the plight of our brothers and sisters in the (still) U.S.-occupied territory? Why aren't we doing more to try and help them? Why aren't we doing more to speak out on their behalf?
Iraqi LGBT is doing all it can, but being the only organization dedicated to helping gay Iraqis, it's difficult for them to make much of an impact. So far, Iraqi LGBT says nearly 100 individuals in Iraq have directly benefited from their work, and they have been involved in securing asylum for Iraqi refugees who have been forced to flee the country.

National Call in Day for Equality

Today is National Call-In Day for Equality--- these call-in days are a coordinated effort by scores of organizations to flood Capitol Hill offices with calls as we move closer to a House vote on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (EDNA).

Congressmembers tell us that what influences them most are emails from people at home. Make a difference, call Capitol Hill now. And get your friends and family members to call too!

Call the U.S. Capitol switchboard: (202) 224-3121. Give your zip code and ask to be connected to your Representative.

Say: My name is _________, a proud resident of (your city and state) and a member of Douglas Congregational United Church of Christ. I am calling in support of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (H.R. 3017), to protect lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people from job discrimination. Please pass ENDA before the end of the year. I can be reached at _______ (give your phone number). Thank you.

Let's burn up the phone lines to Congress, telling them EDNA is next, EDNA is NOW! Let Congress know how important EDNA is to LGBT people and all those who care about equality. Call today! Call now!

Saturday, November 14, 2009

West Michigan Honors Transgender Day of Remembrance

The Transgender Day of Remembrance was set aside to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice. The event is held in November to honor Rita Hester, whose murder on November 28th, 1998 kicked off the “Remembering Our Dead” web project and a San Francisco candlelight vigil in 1999. Rita Hester’s murder — like most anti-transgender murder cases — has yet to be solved.

Although not every person represented during the Day of Remembrance self-identified as transgendered — that is, as a transsexual, crossdresser, or otherwise gender-variant — each was a victim of violence based on bias against transgendered people.

We live in times more sensitive than ever to hatred based violence, especially since the events of September 11th. Yet even now, the deaths of those based on anti-transgender hatred or prejudice are largely ignored. Over the last decade, more than one person per month has died due to transgender-based hate or prejudice, regardless of any other factors in their lives. This trend shows no sign of abating.

The Transgender Day of Remembrance serves several purposes:

· It raises public awareness of hate crimes against transgendered people, an action that current media doesn’t perform.

· It publicly mourns and honors the lives of our brothers and sisters who might otherwise be forgotten.

· Through the vigil, we express love and respect for our people in the face of national indifference and hatred.

· Day of Remembrance reminds non-transgendered people that we are their sons, daughters, parents, friends and lovers.

· Day of Remembrance gives our allies a chance to step forward with us and stand in vigil, memorializing those of us who’ve died by anti-transgender violence.

Local community organizers invite you, your families, and your friends to participate in West Michigan’s Transgender Day of Remembrance. The event begins at Friday, November 20th at 7 p.m. and will take place at East UCC, which is located at 1005 Giddings St., Grand Rapids, MI.

The event will feature food, speakers, performers, as well as a candlelight vigil honoring those whom have fallen and sacrificed for our community.

From http://speakequal.com/?p=2725

State House Committee Passes LGBT into Anti-Discrimination Act

From our friends at Triangle Foundation (www.tri.org):

Earlier today, the Michigan House Committee on Judiciary passed House Bill 4192 to amend the Elliott-Larsen Civil Rights Act. This act protects people from discrimination in housing, employment and public accommodations based upon religion, race, color, national origin, age, sex, height, weight, familial status, or marital status.

HB 4192 amends Elliott-Larsen to add sexual orientation, gender identity or expression to the list of protected classes.

With this, Michigan can proudly say that we are leading the way on behalf of equality and fairness for all of our residents. The passage of the Kalamazoo anti-discrimination ordinance yesterday was a tremendous victory and the momentum for equality is continuing with the committee vote today. We thank Representative Rebekah Warren for her leadership on this issue and we look forward to working with her as the legislative process continues.

Pass Second-Parent Adoption in Michigan!

From Cheryl Burke, our Associate Conference Minister:

A couple of years ago the Michigan Conference passed a resolution on Adoption Equality (see attached). There is an opportunity right now to act on this issue, as the spirit moves you. See note below:
Second Parent Adoption advocacy:
Right now, the Michigan House of Representatives has a bill on Second Parent Adoption, which would protect children and families. This bill is vital to protecting children of same sex couples; without second parent adoption, children lose access to health insurance, social security benefits, and they can even lose their parent in the case of separation or the death of the “legal” parent. Please go to www.secondparentadoption.org for more information. Right now, please contact your state representatives. You can find your state reps on line athttp://house.michigan.gov/find_a_rep.asp.
If you are supportive, call or e-mail.

“Please, bring House Bill 4131 before the full Michigan House of Representatives for a vote now, and vote to pass HB 4131.” Now is the time to make progress on this important issue!

Peace,

Cheryl

Birth of Baha'i Founder Celebrated Nov. 12

Though it's a little past the date for this, it's good info from www.commontables.org:

For Bahá'Ă­s, the Birth of Baha'u'llah is a Holy Day celebrating the birth of the prophet founder of the Baha’i Faith and the rebirth of the world through the love of God. In many respects, it is a day similar to the Christian observance of Christmas.

Baha'u'llah (ba-haw-oo-LAW), was born on 12 November 1817 in Teheran, Persia (Iran). His given name was Husayn-'Ali and He later became known to the world as Baha’u’llah, an Arabic word meaning "The Glory of God". He taught that Manifestations of God – including Moses, Abraham, Christ, Muhammad, Krishna and Buddha – have appeared at intervals throughout history; that these Manifestations of God have been sent by a loving Creator to help us know and worship Him and to bring human civilization to ever-higher levels of achievement.

Baha'u’'lah's central message is one of unity and justice:
“Love ye all religions and all races with a love that is true and sincere and show that love through deeds”
‘Abdul-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of ‘Abdul-Bahá, p. 69

The day of the Birth of Baha'u'llah and the day of His Ascension (May 29) are two of nine Holy Days in the Baha’i calendar during which Baha'is should suspend work and school.

Because days in the Bahá'Ă­ calendar start at sunset, the celebration of the Birth of Baha’u’llah starts on the evening of November 11 and proceeds until sunset on November 12.

As is true of Baha’i holy days generally, there are no prescribed rituals for the celebration/observance of the Birth of Baha'u'llah. The day is usually observed by abstaining from work and with community gatherings where prayers, devotional readings, music and food are shared. The celebration of the Birth of Baha’u’llah is seen by Baha’is as a time for rejoicing together; for increasing the unity of their community.

The folks at Adherents.com tell us that there are well over 7 million people of Baha’i Faith globally. During the time between sunset on November 11th and sundown on November 12th, we suggest that we each pause for a few moments and, in manners appropriate in our personal faith traditions and/or belief systems, send thoughts of love and good will to all of our Baha’i brothers and sisters as they celebrate the Birth of Baha'u'llah.

Shalom Salaam Peace

Kay & Dave Corby, Founders

Quote Time

Who is a hero?

The man that turns
an enemy into a friend.

~ Avot Derabbi Nathan

John Jobson Update

A message about John Jobson from his wife Katie on Nov. 9:

There is reason -- actually two reasons -- to celebrate today....

John's birthday is today -- a whopping 37 candles need to fit on his cake today -- and yes, we will probably have cake (not of an organic nature). We will go out to celebrate and toss healthy eating to the side for a night.

Also, as of today, John is more than 1/2 way done with his radiation treatements. So far, so good. His hair is getting a little thinner, but this has not met with much sympathy from the Jobson men who have dealt with thinning hair for some time. Other than that, the side effects have been minimal.

Hooray!

Katie

Holy Joe's Cafe Extends Extravagant Welcome to Troops

It's no exaggeration to say Holy Joe's Café has helped U.S. military personnel overseas a ton in the past 3 1/2 years. In fact, it's a gross understatement.

Founded in June 2006 by Thomas Jastermsky, a deacon at First Congregational UCC in Wallingford, Conn., Holy Joe's has now supplied 112 tons of coffee to troops in Iraq, Afghanistan and Kuwait.

"We have had 405 chaplains assisting us in serving 120 locations in Iraq, Afghanistan and Kuwait," says Jastermsky, noting the increase in locations, from 95 last year. Someone is always stepping up to the plate to deliver generous amounts of "joe." In September, one of the heavy hitters was Green Mountain Coffee, giving 1,000 pounds in that month alone.

One of the prominent players thus far has been the Tar Heel state, says Jastermsky. "North Carolina has been really, really important to Holy Joe's." Trinity Reformed UCC in Conover, N.C., is a caffeinated case in point.

"For us, it was about being supportive of our chaplains and other military personnel in Kuwait, Afghanistan or Iraq," says the Rev. Tom Hamilton, a Trinity member and retired Associate Conference Minister from the Central Atlantic Conference. "We could be divided about whether to support the war, but there was no division as to whether to support our troops."

Read the rest about this UCC-supported ministry at http://www.ucc.org/news/holy-joes-caf-extends.html

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If the only tool
you have is a hammer,
you tend to see
every problem
as a nail.

~ Abraham Maslow

Visitor Impressed, Welcomed, and Wants to Return

A recent visitor wrote the following note to me:

Over the Columbus Day weekend, we discovered the Douglas Congregational United Church of Christ. We were most impressed and plan to visit again on our return trip next year. As a practicing Catholic, I felt more than welcomed with your congregation. For me, the feeling was the one I should have when I attend service. Again, thank you, and I look forward to returning.

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The longer
we listen to one another
- with real attention -
the more commonality
we will find
in all our lives.

That is,
if we are careful to
exchange with one another
life stories
and not simply
opinions.

~ Barbara Deming

Liz DeBraber at UICA Holiday Artist's Market

Uica invited you to "Holiday Artists' Market" on Friday, December 4 at 5:00pm.

Event: Holiday Artists' Market
Start Time: Friday, December 4 at 5:00pm
End Time: Saturday, December 5 at 9:00pm
Where: 41 Sheldon Blvd. SE Grand Rapids, MI 49503

Liz DeBraber will be selling her scarves, quilts, dresses, ties, wall hangings, etc., here -- all hand-dyed silk. See more about UICA (Urban Institute of Contemporary Arts) at www.uica.org and about Liz at http://www.etsy.com/shop/artsyliz

Reality Bites

I blame it all on the Tooth Fairy. Who would have thought the lives of two children would change with a simple question over a bowl of cornflakes. It was such an ordinary moment; none of us saw it coming.

“Why didn’t she come again?”

. . . Dammit, I forgot, again!

“I don’t know sweetie, I guess the tooth fairy had a big week this week.”

But it was the next question, “Is she even real?” that slapped me Fair Square across the face. I could feel us spiraling into territory I wasn’t quite prepared for; not at 7:45 am and not with my baby! I could only half smile, tilt my head and shrug as I weighed up the truth with the death of childhood fantasies. It is a close call: Lie and keep the dream alive in one corner, honesty and trust in the other.

“Well . . . ” and right there in that slight pause, she figured it out.

“So she’s not?” her voice wobbled. Well, as you can imagine, one thing lead to another and before we knew it we were throwing the lot out. Easter Bunny was next to go, then the big fella. “And Santa?” she asked with a glare, now getting angry.

Read the rest at http://www.sbnr.org/archive/reality-bites/

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Pride is a tricky, glorious, double-edged feeling.
~ Adrienne Rich

AIDS Day Event: We're All in This Together

“We’re All in This Together”
World AIDS Day - Grand Rapids
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
7:00 p.m.
East Congregational United Church of Christ
1005 Giddings Ave. SE
Grand Rapids, MI
Free Admission - freewill offering benefitting St. Mary’s Special Immunology Services

www.worldaidsgr.com

“We’re All in This Together” is about bringing people together to honor those that lost their battle AIDS, celebrate those who are living with HIV, and give hope for the future. The evening promises to be both a reverent tribute and a wonderful celebration. Vocal performances are scheduled by the West Michigan Gay Men’s Chorus and by Michelle Covington, along with an interpretive dance by Grand Valley State University’s service dance troupe, Momentum.

In addition to the entertainment scheduled for the evening, there will be an information area with local HIV/AIDS service organizations at the event.

Admission for "We're All in This Together" is free of charge, with a freewill offering scheduled to take place. Proceeds from the event will benefit St. Mary's Health Care Special Immunology Services, which provides care and educational resources for those affected by HIV.

Complete information including a “download” section with ready-to-go posters, press materials, and Facebook avatars are available at www.worldaidsgr.com, making it easy for you to help spread the word on this important event. Please do so, and please join me at “We’re All in This Together” on December 1st.

Lawmakers Ready to End "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"

Democratic leaders have indicated that they will repeal the Clinton-era "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy in next year's defense-authorization bill -- legislation that has long been considered a likely vehicle for reversing the discriminatory policy. The decision could make the divisive social issue an agenda for voters and candidates during the 2010 midterm elections.

Read about it from The Hill at http://thehill.com/homenews/house/67477-leaders-fix-on-strategy-for-dont-ask-dont-tell-repeal

PFLAG Lakeshore Features Hope College Student DVD

At PFLAG Lakeshore this Friday, Nov. 20, 7-9 p.m., all are invited to watch a DVD created by two Hope College students last Spring called "Endng the Silence" about the issue of homosexuality. One student is gay, another is lesbian, and the third is exploring gender change. The three students tell about their coming out to themselves, family and classmates.

Our support group begins at 7:00 p.m. at Grace Episcopal Church, 555 Michigan Ave. across from the hospital. Enter the church at the side door and go down the stairs and to the left. We will break for snacks at 8:00 p.m. Students from Hope are welcome to come at either 7:00 or at 8:00. We will try to finish up by 9:00 p.m. Those who wish to bring a snack with them may do so. This will take place on Friday, November 20th.

Hope to see you there!